I don't remember where I got this off hand (maybe a bumper sticker?), but this speaks loads to me. It really defines how the blame game is used as subterfuge, and people who think for themselves and are interested in finding solutions don't throw names back and forth, and often don't even come close to trying to assign blame.

I found this following quote later in "Everyday Bravery" from "ysabellabravetalk: Someone is gonna be MAD when I say THIS!" on www.youtube.com. 

"Great minds discuss ideas, and small minds discuss people."

I am keeping the quote I have as above, because it is simpler for small minds to understand. Maybe.

Recently found this quote : "Great minds talk about ideas, average minds talk about events, and small minds talk about people." - Eleanor Roosevelt